Wonderful Greetings Moms,
When you release the judgment of self then you give yourself the permission to be you.
Judgment is the experience of not having met a certain expectation of either the situation or the person. As mothers we want to achieve so much. There is always something in the plate for us, and on top of that we have to be this amazing role model for our kids.
So sometimes we feel we must perhaps pretend for the sake of our kids, to be who we are not. Keeping up appearances can only spiritually impair us. The energy spent in being who we are not takes up a lot more creativity away from our true nature.
How can we be authentic? How can we, as mothers share our flaws and foibles with our children? How can we bring the spirit of being ourselves as role models to our children?
I just got back from “I can Do it” seminar presented by Hay House. Wayne Dyer says let your children fail in things that they are attempting, because this shows that they are trying and failing is just a perception, and winning is just part of the game. The society nowadays has put so much pressure in winning and doing that the beauty of participating is not even recognized. The idea of corporation verses competition should be expressed more, so stress on kids are alleviated and well as for the parents.
So, tell yourself it is OK for the kids to see Mommy or Daddy fail sometimes. What is failing? It is simply a judgment call! Someone’s failure can be another one’s triumph.
I agree with you about becoming amazing role models for our children, but what is an amazing role model when it is simply a role, an illusion? Wouldn’t you as a mother want to be authentic and real with your child? And what is authentic and real? Our natural state is that of joy, love and happiness.
The misconception is that we think happiness and joy is something we attain or accomplish. But think of the last time you accomplished something, how long did that euphoric feeling last? Was it temporary and when you were in that “success” place was it what you had imagined it would be? Everything is temporary except what is within us.
The only way to feel that joy, that state of natural bliss is to move into it. How can you experience this state? By dropping all judgments of self. And even if it is for a brief moment let the bliss move into you, remember it happens little by little. Take it easy on yourself as well as others and know that all is well within the divine organization of the Universe.
Here is to being the real you..mothers.
As usual if you have any questions or comments I am here to help you! I also help moms via Skye sessions release limiting beliefs of themselves so they can really find profound success , fulfillment and peace.
Adwiti Subba Haffner
LIFE LESSONS FROM CHILDREN
Life lessons from Children
Beautiful Greetings Moms,
“Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.” Khalil Gibran
I read “The Prophet” by Khalil Gibran when I was a mere 16 year old and I have been profoundly touched by this poem in a deeply inspiring way. As a child when I read this, it made sense to me because I lost my mother when I was five, so belonging to life itself made perfect sense to me.
Through the years, this poem has significantly evolved in my mind and reached the core of my soul.
So for mothers in all stages of their lives – new mothers, mothers who are having teenagers, mothers who are empty nesting…. please take a moment to breath and know that your children are perfect in their path and their wisdom of the world. They come with a spiritual knowledge of the path and we are here to walk with them, learn with them, guide them, be with them and love them.
Here are some easy ways to walk with your children in guidance.
Relax with the knowledge that the infinite organizing power of the Universe is at play and all you need to do is step into the “trust”, and flow with secure awareness from your heart.
If you believe in God, then know that your children are in his/her hands. Imagine placing your children in the divine hand of God and letting him/her do the work. If you let Ego do the work of God/Spirit then it might not deliver the results that Life longs for. How freeing it is to know that you have now placed your children in the fertile soil of all creation, infinite possibilities and unconditional love.
When you come to a deep knowing in your heart that all of us are here for a purpose and in a journey, with our quota of life lessons (yes even our children) then hopefully your perspective of your burdens will be lightened and you step into your own “divine” nature, belonging to life itself.
If you have any questions or comments feel free to ask me or comment. I will be glad to hopefully show the insight within you.
With all my love and thank you for fulfilling life’s longing for itself.
You are beautiful.
As usual if you have any questions or comments I am here to help you!
I also teach moms (also via Skype sessions) to identify and release the blockages that hold them back, to find within them the empowerment to gain clarity of vision, achieve their life-long dreams and find profound success , fulfillment and peace.
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